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​emotions as weapons


emotions are intended to be guides for behaviour
but as they are so widely misunderstood
they are able to be misused
so they are widely misused 
most people regularly misuse emotions
​and some habitually misuse them 

​a common form of this 
happens when negative emotions " possess" a person 
which is almost a routine function of emotions
then the harm done to others leaves a wake of destruction
others are affected, hurt, offended, aggrieved
when this behavior causes an almost inevitable reaction from its victim
more emotion, eg anger, shouting, indignation etc are used
by the perpetrator
this is used to silence the victim and close the argument 
most people are aware of their ability to do this
those who use this method frequently are basically sociopaths 
it is well known that many sociopaths rise to stardom
in  their field of endeavour by this method of intimidation
which generates tacit support
by dint of the victims fear of emotional reprisal
the same applies in families, marriages and all partnerships / relationships.

those who are unaware of what
they are doing with their emotions
 or of what their emotions are doing with them
are always prey to this behaviour 

since one of our goals, rewarded by happiness 
is being successful, dominant, excelling, etc 
it is no surprise that many take this happiness
thinking this is a good deal 
and they are able to be unempathic enough to 
 leave their victims unhappy

this is an example of how the different goals
rewarded by happiness 
can be in conflict
the outcome of reasonably shared happiness is not necessarily supported
   




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  • introduction
    • emotion : definition >
      • how the mind works
      • why live
      • why be happy
    • DNA >
      • survival
      • artificial intelligence
      • the self
      • reasons for living overlap
      • behind the reasons >
        • dna extended phenotype
        • overcome adversity
      • Meaning, which makes us content
    • who are you
    • DNA the architect of mind​
    • happiness fear and humour
  • the uselessness of mystery
  • invent happiness
    • unhappiness
    • positive emotions
    • negative emotions
    • mechanisms >
      • programmed
  • failures of emotions
    • the master
    • the gap
    • the other side of the gap
    • ignorance
    • binary versus analogue
    • blindness
    • challenges
    • escalation
    • power
    • mental illness is emotions out of control
    • drugs
    • crime
  • solutions
    • simple rules
    • diligence
    • focus
    • equanimity
    • awareness
    • intuitive
    • DNA vs you
  • humour
  • fear
  • depression
  • emotion meter
  • quiz
    • quiz answer
  • religion
  • questions for you
  • Emotions are autonomous
  • moods , feelings
  • the self and beneficial AI
  • you don't know what you are doing
  • emotions as weapons
  • stoicism
  • derivative thinking
  • taming the amygdala
  • criticism
  • philosophy
  • dna directives.
  • philosophers and emotions
  • philosophers
  • dna the designer...proof
  • response to emotions
  • science and emotion
  • social behaviour and emotions
  • emotions and politics
  • conatus
  • science
  • modern socioeconomic happiness
  • free will
  • introduction
  • dopamine and neurotransmitters
  • input process output